{"id":11152,"date":"2024-11-09T17:12:12","date_gmt":"2024-11-09T09:12:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/whalefallnotes.blog\/?p=11152"},"modified":"2025-03-04T23:13:43","modified_gmt":"2025-03-04T15:13:43","slug":"what-does-go-with-the-flow-natural-mean-how-can-we-achieve-go-with-the-flow-natural-by-non-reaction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/whalefallnotes.blog\/zh\/2024\/11\/09\/what-does-go-with-the-flow-natural-mean-how-can-we-achieve-go-with-the-flow-natural-by-non-reaction\/","title":{"rendered":"\u4ec0\u9ebc\u662f\u300c\u9806\u5176(\u61c9)\u81ea\u7136\u300d? \u5982\u4f55\u900f\u904e\u300c\u7121\u70ba\u300d\u4f86\u300c\u9806\u5176(\u61c9)\u81ea\u7136\u300d? What does &#8220;go with the flow (Natural)&#8221; mean? How can we achieve &#8220;go with the flow (Natural)&#8221; by &#8220;non-reaction&#8221;?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8981\u77e5\u9053\u5982\u4f55\u505a\u5230\u300c\u9806\u5176(\u61c9)\u81ea\u7136\u300d\uff0c\u9996\u5148\u8981\u77e5\u9053\u4ec0\u9ebc\u662f\u300c\u53cd\u81ea\u7136\u300d\u3002\u4ee5\u4e0b\u662f\u4e00\u4e9b\u4eba\u7684\u65e5\u5e38\u751f\u6d3b\u884c\u70ba\u8b93\u6211\u5011\u7522\u751f\u300c\u53cd\u81ea\u7136\u300d\u611f\u89ba\u7684\u4f8b\u5b50\uff1a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To understand how to &#8220;go with the flow(natural)&#8221; you first need to know what &#8220;anti-natural&#8221; means. Here are some examples of behaviors in people&#8217;s daily lives that make us feel &#8220;anti-natural&#8221;:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u7576\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u70ba\u4e86\u79ae\u8c8c\u6216\u793e\u4ea4\u539f\u56e0\u800c\u5047\u88dd\u5fae\u7b11\u6642\uff0c\u9019\u7a2e\u8868\u60c5\u901a\u5e38\u6c92\u6709\u771f\u6b63\u5fae\u7b11\u6240\u5e36\u4f86\u7684\u6eab\u6696\u548c\u771f\u8aa0\u611f\u89ba\u3002<br>When a person pretends to smile for the sake of politeness or social reasons, this expression usually lacks the warmth and sincerity that a genuine smile brings.<br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u7576\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u904e\u5ea6\u8b19\u865b\u6216\u8cb6\u4f4e\u81ea\u5df1\u3002<br>When a person is overly modest or belittles themselves.<br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u8dd1\u6b65\u6642\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u624b\u81c2\u64fa\u52d5\u5f97\u904e\u65bc\u8a87\u5f35\uff0c\u8d85\u904e\u4e86\u80a9\u8180\u7684\u6c34\u5e73\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u5927\u5e45\u5ea6\u5730\u63ee\u52d5\uff0c\u9019\u5c31\u5c6c\u65bc\u4e00\u7a2e\u53cd\u81ea\u7136\u7684\u8dd1\u6b65\u59ff\u614b\u3002<br>When a person runs with overly exaggerated arm swings, moving beyond shoulder level, or making large sweeping motions, it is considered an anti-natural running posture.<br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u7576\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u7a81\u7136\u8b8a\u5f97\u904e\u65bc\u71b1\u60c5\u548c\u53cb\u597d\uff0c\u9019\u7a2e\u884c\u70ba\u8207\u4ed6\u5011\u5e73\u6642\u7684\u8868\u73fe\u4e0d\u4e00\u81f4\u3002<br>When a person suddenly becomes overly enthusiastic and friendly, this behavior is inconsistent with their usual demeanor.<br><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u5728\u4e00\u500b\u8f15\u9b06\u7684\u5834\u5408\u4e2d\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u6709\u4eba\u4f7f\u7528\u904e\u65bc\u6b63\u5f0f\u6216\u5c08\u696d\u7684\u8a9e\u8a00\uff0c\u9019\u6703\u8b93\u4eba\u611f\u89ba\u53cd\u81ea\u7136\u3002<br>In a relaxed setting, if someone uses overly formal or professional language, it can make people feel anti-natural.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4ee5\u4e0a\u9019\u4e9b\u4f8b\u5b50\u90fd\u6703\u8b93\u6211\u5011\u672c\u80fd\u5730\u7522\u751f\u300c\u53cd\u81ea\u7136\u300d\u7684\u611f\u89ba\uff0c\u9019\u7a2e\u611f\u89ba\u5c31\u50cf\u5728\u4e00\u7247\u5be7\u975c\u7684\u68ee\u6797\u4e2d\u6f2b\u6b65\uff0c\u5468\u570d\u90fd\u662f\u81ea\u7136\u7684\u8072\u97f3\u548c\u666f\u8c61\uff1a\u9ce5\u5152\u5728\u6b4c\u5531\uff0c\u6a39\u8449\u5728\u5fae\u98a8\u4e2d\u6c99\u6c99\u4f5c\u97ff\u3002\u7136\u800c\uff0c\u5728\u9019\u6a23\u4e00\u500b\u5b8c\u5168\u81ea\u7136\u7684\u74b0\u5883\u4e2d\uff0c\u7a81\u7136\u767c\u73fe\u4e86\u4e00\u96bb\u624b\u9336\u639b\u5728\u6a39\u4e0a\u3002\u9019\u96bb\u624b\u9336\u7684\u5b58\u5728\u986f\u5f97\u7a81\u5140\u800c\u53cd\u81ea\u7136\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u5b83\u662f\u660e\u986f\u7d93\u904e\u4eba\u985e\u8a2d\u8a08\u4e26\u88fd\u9020\u7684\u73fe\u4ee3\u7269\u54c1\uff0c\u8207\u5468\u570d\u7684\u81ea\u7136\u666f\u89c0\u683c\u683c\u4e0d\u5165\u3002\u9019\u7a2e\u60c5\u6cc1\u6703\u8b93\u4eba\u611f\u5230\u53cd\u81ea\u7136\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u624b\u9336\u7684\u7cbe\u5bc6\u8a2d\u8a08\u548c\u4eba\u5de5\u6750\u6599\u5728\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u74b0\u5883\u4e2d\u986f\u5f97\u975e\u5e38\u7570\u5e38\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">All these examples instinctively give us a sense of &#8220;anti-naturalness&#8221; similar to walking in a tranquil forest surrounded by natural sounds and sights: birds singing, leaves rustling in the breeze. However, in such a completely natural setting, you suddenly find a watch hanging on a tree. The presence of the watch seems jarring and unnatural because it is an obvious modern object designed and manufactured by humans, which is completely out of place with the natural landscape. This situation feels unnatural, as the watch&#8217;s intricate design and artificial materials appear highly unusual in such an environment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u300c\u53cd\u81ea\u7136\u300d\u7684\u611f\u89ba\u8207\u4eba\u7684\u50f9\u503c\u5224\u65b7\u5bc6\u5207\u76f8\u95dc\uff0c\u7576\u6211\u5011\u8a8d\u70ba\u67d0\u500b\u4e8b\u7269\u6216\u884c\u70ba\u4e0d\u7b26\u5408\u6211\u5011\u5c0d\u81ea\u7136\u6216\u771f\u5be6\u7684\u9810\u671f\u548c\u6a19\u6e96\u6642\uff0c\u5c31\u6703\u7522\u751f\u300c\u53cd\u81ea\u7136\u300d\u7684\u611f\u89ba\u3002\u9019\u7a2e\u611f\u89ba\u5f80\u5f80\u57fa\u65bc\u6587\u5316\u3001\u7d93\u9a57\u3001\u60c5\u611f\u548c\u8a8d\u77e5\u7684\u7d9c\u5408\u4f5c\u7528\u3002\u4f8b\u5982\uff0c\u4eba\u5de5\u88fd\u9020\u7684\u4e8b\u7269\u53ef\u80fd\u56e0\u70ba\u7f3a\u4e4f\u81ea\u7136\u4e8b\u7269\u7684\u7d30\u7bc0\u6216\u7279\u8cea\u800c\u88ab\u8a8d\u70ba\u53cd\u81ea\u7136\uff1b\u884c\u70ba\u4e0a\uff0c\u5047\u7b11\u6216\u904e\u65bc\u6b63\u5f0f\u7684\u8a9e\u8a00\u4e5f\u56e0\u70ba\u4e0d\u7b26\u5408\u6211\u5011\u5c0d\u771f\u8aa0\u548c\u653e\u9b06\u7684\u9810\u671f\u800c\u986f\u5f97\u53cd\u81ea\u7136\u3002\u9019\u4e9b\u5224\u65b7\u90fd\u662f\u57fa\u65bc\u6211\u5011\u7684\u7d93\u9a57\u548c\u6587\u5316\u80cc\u666f\u4f86\u9032\u884c\u7684\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The feeling of &#8220;anti-naturalness&#8221; is closely related to human value judgments. When we perceive that a certain object or behavior does not meet our expectations and standards of what is natural or real, we experience a sense of &#8220;anti-naturalness&#8221;. This feeling is often based on a combination of cultural, experiential, emotional, and cognitive factors. For example, artificial objects may be considered unnatural due to their lack of details or characteristics found in natural objects. Similarly, behaviors such as fake smiles or overly formal language can seem unnatural because they do not align with our expectations of sincerity and relaxation. These judgments are shaped by our experiences and cultural backgrounds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6240\u4ee5\uff0c\u300c\u53cd\u81ea\u7136\u7684\u4e8b\u7269\u300d\u5c31\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u8b93\u4eba\u611f\u89ba\u5230\u662f\u88ab\u7d93\u904e\u8a08\u7b97\u548c\u8a2d\u8a08\u5f8c\u7684\u4e8b\u7269\uff1b<strong>\u800c\u300c\u53cd\u81ea\u7136\u7684\u884c\u70ba\u300d\uff0c\u5c31\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u8b93\u4eba\u611f\u5230\u7d93\u904e\u8a08\u7b97\u548c\u8a2d\u8a08\u5f8c\u7684\u884c\u70ba\uff0c\u800c\u9019\u7a2e\u884c\u70ba\u4f01\u5716\u6216\u6b63\u5728\u6297\u8861\u548c\u6539\u8b8a\u7576\u4e0b\u81ea\u7136\u5b58\u5728\u7684\u74b0\u5883\u3001\u60c5\u6cc1\u548c\u4e8b\u5be6<\/strong>\u3002\u6240\u6709\u7684\u8a08\u7b97\u548c\u8a2d\u8a08\u5176\u5be6\u90fd\u662f\u4e86\u70ba\u4f5c\u51fa\u300c\u4e8c\u5143\u50f9\u503c\u5224\u65b7\u300d\u5f8c\u9054\u5230\u67d0\u7a2e\u76ee\u7684\uff0c\u9019\u610f\u5473\u8457\u6211\u5011\u5728\u8a08\u7b97\u3001\u6c7a\u7b56\u6216\u8a2d\u8a08\u904e\u7a0b\u4e2d\u90fd\u4f7f\u7528\u4e86\u4e00\u7a2e\u6216\u591a\u7a2e\u5982\u300c\u662f\u6216\u5426\u300d\u3001\u300c\u597d\u6216\u58de\u300d\u3001\u300c\u5408\u7406\u8207\u4e0d\u5408\u7406\u300d\u7b49\u7b49\u7684\u4e8c\u5143\u50f9\u503c\u5224\u65b7\u7684\u6b63\u8ca0\u6a19\u6e96\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So, &#8220;anti-natural objects&#8221; are those that people perceive as being calculated and designed; <strong>while &#8220;anti-natural behaviors&#8221; are those that people feel are calculated and designed actions that attempt to counteract or change the existing natural environment, situation, and reality<\/strong>. All calculations and designs are essentially meant to achieve a certain purpose through binary value judgments, which means that in the process of calculation, decision-making, or design, we use one or more positive and negative standards of binary value judgments such as &#8220;yes or no&#8221;, &#8220;good or bad&#8221;, &#8220;reasonable or ridiculous&#8221; etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u56e0\u70ba\u6211\u5011\u90fd\u60f3\u81ea\u5df1\u53ef\u9054\u5230\u81ea\u5df1\u5fc3\u76ee\u4e2d\u6240\u8b02\u5c6c\u65bc\u300c\u6b63\u300d\u7684\u6a19\u6e96\uff0c\u800c\u6297\u62d2\u81ea\u5df1\u5fc3\u76ee\u4e2d\u5c6c\u65bc\u300c\u8ca0\u300d\u7684\u6a19\u6e96\uff0c\u60f3\u300c\u64c1\u6709 (\u8ffd\u6c42)\u300d\u67d0\u4e9b\u4e8b\u7269\uff0c\u5bb3\u6015\u300c\u5931\u53bb\u300d\u67d0\u4e9b\u4e8b\u7269\u7b49\u7b49\uff0c\u9019\u4e9b\u90fd\u662f\u53cd\u81ea\u7136\u884c\u70ba\u80cc\u5f8c\u7684\u81ea\u89ba\u6216\u4e0d\u81ea\u89ba\u7684\u76ee\u7684\u3002\u5f88\u591a\u7684\u60c5\u7dd2\u90fd\u662f\u4f86\u81ea\u904e\u5ea6\u7684\u4e8c\u5143\u50f9\u503c\u5224\u65b7\u6240\u7522\u751f\u7684\u53cd\u81ea\u7136\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u53cd\u81ea\u7136\u6240\u4ee5\u6703\u9020\u6210\u7dca\u5f35\u3001\u57f7\u8457\u3001\u7126\u616e\u3001\u6050\u61fc\u7b49\u7b49\u60c5\u7dd2\uff0c\u9032\u4e00\u6b65\u5f71\u97ff\u8eab\u9ad4\u9020\u6210\u8e66\u7dca\u8139\u75db\uff0c\u5f71\u97ff\u8840\u58d3\u751a\u81f3\u514d\u75ab\u7cfb\u7d71\u529f\u80fd\u5931\u8abf\u6216\u764c\u75c7\u7b49\u7b49\u5927\u5927\u5c0f\u5c0f\u7684\u75be\u75c5\u3002<strong>\u4f46\u5982\u679c\u904e\u5ea6\u8ffd\u6c42\u653e\u9b06\u800c\u4f01\u5716\u6539\u8b8a\u56e0\u70ba\u53cd\u81ea\u7136\u800c\u9020\u6210\u7684\u7dca\u5f35\uff0c\u9019\u4e26\u6c92\u6709\u63a5\u53d7\u6b63\u5728\u7dca\u5f35\u7684\u73fe\u5be6\uff0c\u4e5f\u662f\u300c\u53cd\u81ea\u7136\u300d\uff0c\u53ea\u6703\u7e7c\u7e8c\u9020\u6210\u66f4\u5927\u7684\u7dca\u5f35 (\u5c31\u50cf\u5c0d\u5931\u7720\u7684\u81ea\u5df1\u5f37\u884c\u653e\u9b06\u5165\u7761\u4e00\u6a23)\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Because we all want to reach what we consider the &#8220;positive&#8221; standards and resist what we consider &#8220;negative&#8221; standards, we seek to &#8220;possess (pursue)&#8221; certain things and fear &#8220;losing&#8221; certain things. These are the conscious or unconscious goals behind anti-natural behaviors. Many emotions arise from the unnaturalness produced by excessive binary value judgments. Unnaturalness leads to tension, obsession, anxiety, fear, and other emotions, which further impact the body, causing tightness, pain, affecting blood pressure, and even leading to immune system dysfunction or various diseases, including cancer. However, if we excessively pursue relaxation to counteract the tension caused by unnaturalness, this does not accept the reality of the current tension and is also &#8220;anti-natural&#8221;. It only continues to cause greater tension (like trying to force oneself to relax and sleep when suffering from insomnia).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8981\u505a\u5230\u300c\u9806\u5176\u81ea\u7136\u300d\u5148\u8981\u505a\u5230\u300c\u7121\u70ba\u300d\uff0c\u7121\u70ba\u5c31\u662f\u6d88\u9664\u6211\u5011\u7684\u5927\u8166\u5c0d\u7576\u4e0b\u7684\u73fe\u5be6\u4f01\u5716\u6240\u4f5c\u51fa\u7684\u6240\u6709\u7684\u4e8c\u5143\u5224\u65b7\u3002\u6211\u5011\u76f8\u7576\u65bc\u4e00\u500b\u7ad9\u5728\u8def\u908a\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u89c0\u5bdf\u4f86\u4f86\u5f80\u5f80\u7684\u4eba\u7fa4\uff0c\u5c31\u7b97\u5728\u89c0\u5bdf\u904e\u7a0b\u4e2d\u4e0b\u5927\u96e8\u3001\u770b\u898b\u8def\u904e\u8eab\u7a7f\u5947\u88dd\u7570\u670d\u7684\u4eba\u6216\u6709\u4eba\u5728\u9032\u884c\u67d0\u7a2e\u8352\u8a95\u884c\u70ba\u4f01\u5716\u5438\u5f15\u5225\u4eba\u7684\u6ce8\u610f\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u767c\u751f\u9397\u64ca\u6848\u7b49\u7b49\uff0c\u7576\u6211\u5011\u89c0\u5bdf\u5230\u9019\u4e9b\u300c\u81ea\u7136\u73fe\u8c61\u300d\u6642\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u4e26\u4e0d\u80fd\u963b\u6b62\u884c\u4eba\u5728\u8857\u4e0a\u884c\u8d70\u751a\u81f3\u4e0d\u80fd\u963b\u6b62\u8eca\u798d\u7684\u767c\u751f\uff0c\u4f46\u6211\u5011\u53ef\u4ee5\u6d88\u9664\u6211\u5011\u7684\u5927\u8166\u5c0d\u4efb\u4f55\u6b63\u5728\u767c\u751f\u7684\u300c\u73fe\u8c61\u300d\u4f01\u5716\u4f5c\u51fa\u7684\u4e8c\u5143\u50f9\u503c\u5224\u65b7\uff0c\u5982\u300c\u7f8e\u300d\u6216\u300c\u919c\u300d\u3001\u300c\u5371\u96aa\u300d\u6216\u300c\u5b89\u5168\u300d\u3001\u300c\u6709\u8da3\u300d\u6216\u300c\u6c89\u60b6\u300d\u3001\u300c\u60f3\u8981\u300d\u6216\u300c\u6297\u62d2\u300d\u7b49\u7b49\u3002\u7576\u4e0d\u65b7\u5236\u6b62\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5927\u8166\u4f01\u5716\u4f5c\u51fa\u7684\u4e8c\u5143\u50f9\u503c\u5224\u65b7\u5f8c\uff0c\u8b93\u6240\u6709\u4e8b\u60c5\u4e0d\u65b7\u5730\u300c\u81ea\u7136\u5730\u767c\u751f\u300d\uff0c\u5c31\u662f\u610f\u8b58\u4e0a\u52d5\u614b\u5730\u300c\u9806\u5176\u300d\u5728\u73fe\u5be6\u4e0d\u65b7\u6d41\u52d5\u7684\u300c\u81ea\u7136\u300d \u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To &#8220;go with the flow (Natural)&#8221; one must first achieve &#8220;non-reaction&#8221;. Non-reaction means eliminating all binary judgments that our mind tries to make about the current reality. It is akin to a person standing by the roadside, observing the passing crowd. Even if it starts to rain heavily, or you see someone passing by in bizarre clothing, or someone engaging in absurd behavior to attract attention, or even if a shooting incident occurs, these are all &#8220;natural phenomena&#8221; that we observe. 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