{"id":8616,"date":"2023-12-19T03:18:01","date_gmt":"2023-12-18T19:18:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/whalefallnotes.blog\/?p=8616"},"modified":"2024-12-09T11:45:07","modified_gmt":"2024-12-09T03:45:07","slug":"knowing-is-the-beginning-of-many-sufferings-recognize-how-the-definitions-given-by-people-cause-various-kinds-of-pain-in-life-and-learn-to-let-go-and-face-all-the-unpleasant-memories-of-the-past","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/whalefallnotes.blog\/zh\/2023\/12\/19\/knowing-is-the-beginning-of-many-sufferings-recognize-how-the-definitions-given-by-people-cause-various-kinds-of-pain-in-life-and-learn-to-let-go-and-face-all-the-unpleasant-memories-of-the-past\/","title":{"rendered":"\u300c\u77e5\u9053\u300d\u662f\u5f88\u591a\u75db\u82e6\u7684\u958b\u59cb\u3002\u8a8d\u77e5\u300c\u7531\u4ed6\u4eba\u7d66\u4e88\u7684\u5b9a\u7fa9\u300d\u5982\u4f55\u5c0d\u4eba\u751f\u7522\u751f\u5404\u7a2e\u5404\u6a23\u7684\u75db\u82e6\uff0c\u4e26\u5b78\u6703\u653e\u4e0b\u548c\u9762\u5c0d\u904e\u53bb\u6240\u6709\u4e0d\u6109\u5feb\u7684\u8a18\u61b6 &#8220;Knowing&#8221; is the beginning of many sufferings. Recognize how the &#8220;definitions given by people&#8221; cause various kinds of pain in life, and learn to let go and face all the unpleasant memories of the past."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u300c\u77e5\u9053\u300d\u662f\u5f88\u591a\u75db\u82e6\u7684\u958b\u59cb<br>&#8220;Knowing&#8221; is the beginning of many sufferings<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4ee5\u4e0b\u6709\u5e7e\u500b\u65e5\u5e38\u751f\u6d3b\u7684\u4f8b\u5b50\u7528\u4f86\u9ad4\u73fe\u56e0\u70ba\u300c\u77e5\u9053\u300d\u5e36\u4f86\u7684\u75db\u82e6\uff1a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here are a few examples from everyday life that illustrate the pain caused by &#8220;knowing&#8221;:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u4f34\u4fb6\u51fa\u8ecc Infidelity of a Partner<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u7121\u610f\u4e2d\u767c\u73fe\u4f60\u67d0\u500b\u670b\u53cb\u7684\u4f34\u4fb6\u5b58\u5728\u300c\u51fa\u8ecc\uff08\u4e0d\u5fe0\uff09\u300d\u884c\u70ba\uff0c\u4f60\u6703\u5426\u8b93\u4f60\u670b\u53cb\u300c\u77e5\u9053\u300d\uff1f\u5728\u300c\u9053\u7fa9\u300d\u4e0a\u6216\u9053\u5fb7\u5c64\u9762\u4f86\u8aaa\uff0c\u5f88\u591a\u4e0d\u540c\u5730\u5340\u7684\u50f9\u503c\u89c0\u50f9\u503c\u90fd\u8a8d\u70ba\u51fa\u8ecc\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u5b58\u5728\u65bc\u7537\u5973\u4eba\u969b\u95dc\u4fc2\u7684\u4e00\u500b\u9053\u5fb7\u554f\u984c\uff0c\u8b93\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u670b\u53cb\u77e5\u9053\u81ea\u5df1\u88ab\u6b3a\u9a19\u7684\u4e8b\u5be6\u770b\u8d77\u4f86\u662f\u6700\u7b26\u5408\u670b\u53cb\u95dc\u4fc2\u300c\u9053\u7fa9\u300d\u4e0a\u7684\u8981\u6c42\u53ca\u5176\u5207\u8eab\u7684\u5229\u76ca\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you accidentally discover that a friend&#8217;s partner is engaged in &#8220;infidelity&#8221; or being unfaithful, would you let your friend &#8220;know&#8221;? From a moral standpoint, many cultural values in different regions consider infidelity to be a moral issue within interpersonal relationships. It may seem that informing your friend about being deceived aligns with the moral requirements and their best interests in the context of the friendship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4f46\u5047\u5982\u4f60\u670b\u53cb\u7684\u4f34\u4fb6\u5176\u5f8c\u8655\u7406\u597d\u9019\u6bb5\u4e09\u89d2\u95dc\u4fc2\uff0c\u4f8b\u5982\u5728\u4e4b\u5f8c\u56e0\u70ba\u67d0\u7a2e\u539f\u56e0\u653e\u68c4\u9019\u6bb5\u8207\u7b2c\u4e09\u8005\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\uff0c\u53c8\u6216\u8005\u9019\u6bb5\u77ed\u6642\u9593\u7684\u4e0d\u5fe0\u95dc\u4fc2\u8b93\u5176\u4f34\u4fb6\u5f97\u5230\u67d0\u7a2e\u4eba\u751f\u9ad4\u6703\u5f8c\u56de\u5230\u4f60\u670b\u53cb\u8eab\u908a\u3002\u5982\u679c\u662f\u9019\u6a23\u767c\u5c55\u4e0b\u53bb\uff0c\u5728\u4e4b\u5f8c\u770b\u4f86\u56e0\u4f34\u4fb6\u77ed\u66ab\u51fa\u8ecc\u800c\u9020\u6210\u4f60\u670b\u53cb\u7684\u640d\u5931\u770b\u8d77\u4f86\u5176\u5be6\u4e26\u4e0d\u662f\u5f88\u5927\u3002\u90a3\u9ebc\u8b93\u4f60\u670b\u53cb\u300c\u77e5\u9053\u300d\u537b\u986f\u5f97\u5f88\u7121\u8b02\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u5728\u7576\u4e0b\u5c0d\u4ed6\u4eba\u5e36\u4f86\u5f88\u591a\u4e0d\u5fc5\u8981\u7684\u75db\u82e6\u3002\u5728\u9019\u88e1\u4e26\u4e0d\u662f\u8a0e\u8ad6\u51fa\u8ecc\u7684\u9053\u5fb7\u554f\u984c\uff0c\u662f\u601d\u8003\u8b93\u670b\u53cb\u300c\u77e5\u9053\u300d\u5176\u4f34\u4fb6\u51fa\u8ecc\u662f\u5426\u5c0d\u4ed6\u4f86\u8aaa\u662f\u4e00\u4ef6\u597d\u4e8b\u3002\u800c\u4e14\u5c31\u7b97\u7576\u4e0b\u4ed6\u5011\u8655\u65bc\u4e09\u89d2\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e4b\u9593\uff0c\u81f3\u5c11\u7576\u4e0b\u4e5f\u6c92\u6709\u4eba\u56e0\u70ba\u300c\u77e5\u9053\u300d\u800c\u4e0d\u6109\u5feb\uff0c\u4ecd\u53ef\u7e7c\u7e8c\u6109\u5feb\u751f\u6d3b\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, if your friend&#8217;s partner subsequently resolves the situation, for example, by ending the affair for some reason or if this short period of unfaithfulness provides a valuable life lesson for their partner, who then returns to your friend&#8217;s side, the perceived impact of the infidelity on your friend&#8217;s life may not be significant in the long run. In such a case, making your friend &#8220;know&#8221; about the infidelity becomes meaningless and may even cause unnecessary pain to others in the present moment. The discussion here is not about the moral issue of infidelity but rather about considering whether it is beneficial for your friend to &#8220;know&#8221; about their partner&#8217;s infidelity. Moreover, even if they are currently in a love triangle, at least in the present, no one is unhappy because of &#8220;knowing,&#8221; allowing them to continue living happily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u300c\u5132\u84c4\u4fdd\u96aa\u300dSavings Insurance<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5132\u84c4\u4fdd\u96aa\u7684\u539f\u7406\uff0c\u662f\u6295\u4fdd\u4eba\u5c07\u8cc7\u91d1\u4ea4\u6258\u5230\u91d1\u878d\u6a5f\u69cb\u624b\u4e0a\uff0c\u8b93\u91d1\u878d\u6a5f\u69cb\u7684\u5c08\u696d\u6295\u8cc7\u5718\u968a\u53bb\u6295\u8cc7\uff0c\u7136\u5f8c\u8ddf\u81ea\u5df1\u6524\u5206\u6295\u8cc7\u6210\u679c\u3002\u773e\u6240\u5468\u77e5\uff0c\u4fdd\u96aa\u7d93\u7d00\u5982\u679c\u80fd\u6210\u529f\u63a8\u92b7\u4e00\u4efd\u5132\u84c4\u4fdd\u96aa\u7d66\u5ba2\u6236\uff0c\u6240\u6536\u5230\u7684\u50ad\u91d1\u662f\u6bd4\u5b9a\u671f\u4fdd\u96aa\u66f4\u591a\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u6bd4\u5b9a\u671f\u4fdd\u96aa\u591a\u9054\u767e\u5206\u4e4b\u4e94\u5341\u4ee5\u4e0a\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u5f88\u591a\u4fdd\u96aa\u7d93\u7d00\u6703\u4e0d\u907a\u9918\u529b\u5730\u63a8\u92b7\u5132\u84c4\u4fdd\u96aa\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The principle behind savings insurance is that the policyholder entrusts their funds to a financial institution, which then utilizes a professional investment team to invest the funds. The policyholder then shares in the investment results. It is well known that insurance brokers receive higher commissions for successfully selling savings insurance to customers, sometimes even exceeding the commissions for term insurance by more than fifty percent. Therefore, many insurance brokers spare no effort in promoting savings insurance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u7b46\u8005\u9019\u500b\u670b\u53cb\u672c\u4f86\u4e26\u6c92\u6709\u4ec0\u9ebc\u6709\u95dc\u4fdd\u96aa\u7684\u77e5\u8b58\uff0c\u6700\u5f8c\u7d93\u4ed6\u7684\u670b\u53cb\u63a8\u92b7\u5f8c\u70ba\u5176\u8cfc\u5165\u4e86\u4e00\u4efd\u5132\u84c4\u4fdd\u96aa\u3002\u4f46\u6700\u5f8c\u7b46\u8005\u7684\u670b\u53cb\u5176\u5f8c\u5728\u7db2\u4e0a\u300c\u77e5\u9053\u300d\u5132\u84c4\u4fdd\u96aa\u5728\u4fdd\u96aa\u7d93\u7d00\u7684\u50ad\u91d1\u6bd4\u5176\u4ed6\u4fdd\u96aa\u9ad8\u5f88\u591a\uff0c\u800c\u4e14\u5728\u5404\u7db2\u4e0a\u8ad6\u58c7\u5f97\u77e5\u5927\u91cf\u6709\u95dc\u5132\u84c4\u4fdd\u96aa\u7684\u8ca0\u9762\u8cc7\u8a0a\u3002\u5118\u7ba1\u5ba2\u89c0\u4e0a\u4f86\u770b\u5132\u84c4\u4fdd\u96aa\u8207\u5b9a\u671f\u4fdd\u96aa\u5404\u6709\u5176\u7528\u9014\u548c\u5e02\u5834\u50f9\u503c\uff0c\u4f46\u4ecd\u6703\u89ba\u5f97\u81ea\u5df1\u56e0\u70ba\u300c\u88ab\u9a19\u300d\u800c\u8cb7\u4e0b\u5132\u84c4\u4fdd\u96aa\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Initially, the author&#8217;s friend had no knowledge about insurance. However, influenced by a friend, they eventually purchased a savings insurance. Subsequently, the author&#8217;s friend became &#8220;aware&#8221; online that the commissions for selling savings insurance are much higher for insurance brokers compared to other types of insurance. They also came across numerous negative information about savings insurance on various online forums. Despite the fact that objectively savings insurance and term insurance serve different purposes and have their own market value, the friend still felt they were &#8220;deceived&#8221; into buying savings insurance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u6027\u4fb5 Sexual Assault<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u7b46\u8005\u7814\u7a76\u904e\u4e00\u4e9b\u7ae5\u5e74\u88ab\u6027\u4fb5\u7684\u500b\u6848\uff0c\u5f88\u591a\u4e8b\u4e3b\u5728\u7ae5\u5e74\u88ab\u6027\u4fb5\u5f8c\uff0c\u7531\u65bc\u7576\u6642\u5c0d\u6027\u4fb5\u6c92\u6709\u4efb\u4f55\u6982\u5ff5\uff0c\u5c0d\u6027\u4fb5\u884c\u70ba\u53ea\u80fd\u7c21\u55ae\u5224\u65b7\u70ba\u4e00\u4e9b\u300c\u5947\u602a\u4f46\u53c8\u4e0d\u77e5\u5982\u4f55\u5c0d\u4eba\u8aaa\u51fa\u7684\u884c\u70ba\u300d\u3002\u4f46\u4eba\u96a8\u8457\u5e74\u7d00\u6f38\u9577\uff0c\u53d7\u5bb3\u8005\u9010\u6f38\u300c\u77e5\u9053\u300d\u6027\u4fb5\u5728\u4eba\u985e\u793e\u6703\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u5c0d\u4fb5\u72af\u5973\u6027\u8eab\u9ad4\u7684\u7f6a\u884c\uff0c\u800c\u4e14\u66f4\u300c\u77e5\u9053\u300d\u5230\u88ab\u6027\u4fb5\u8005\u7531\u65bc\u5931\u53bb\u5176\u300c\u8c9e\u6f54\u300d\u6240\u5e36\u4f86\u7684\u6b67\u8996\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u88ab\u6027\u4fb5\u904e\u7684\u8eab\u9ad4\u6703\u88ab\u8a8d\u70ba\u662f\u9aaf\u9ad2\u7684\u8eab\u9ad4\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u300c\u77e5\u9053\u300d\u90e8\u4efd\u7537\u6027\u5c0d\u300c\u8655\u5973\u300d\u7684\u60c5\u7d50\u548c\u300c\u8655\u5973\u300d\u662f\u975e\u5e38\u91cd\u8981\u7b49\u7b49\u8cc7\u8a0a\u3002\u9019\u4e9b\u8cc7\u8a0a\u6703\u5728\u53d7\u5bb3\u8005\u8166\u4e2d\u5f62\u6210\u4e00\u7a2e\u50f9\u503c\u89c0\uff0c\u8b93\u53d7\u5bb3\u8005\u4e0d\u65b7\u81ea\u6211\u8cb6\u4f4e\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u50f9\u503c\uff0c\u9019\u7a2e\u56e0\u70ba\u300c\u77e5\u9053\u300d\u4eba\u5011\u5c0d\u6027\u4fb5\u7684\u300c\u5b9a\u7fa9\u300d\u53cd\u800c\u5e36\u4f86\u6bd4\u7ae5\u5e74\u6642\u88ab\u6027\u4fb5\u6642\u66f4\u5927\u66f4\u6df1\u7684\u75db\u82e6\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The author has studied some cases of childhood sexual assault. Many victims, after experiencing sexual assault in their childhood, had no concept of it at the time and could only perceive the behaviour as something &#8220;strange but not knowing how to talk about it.&#8221; However, as individuals grow older, they gradually &#8220;become aware&#8221; that sexual assault is a crime against a woman&#8217;s body in human society. They also become more &#8220;aware&#8221; of the discrimination faced by victims due to the loss of their &#8220;virginity&#8221; or the perception of their bodies as dirty after being sexually assaulted. They even become aware of certain men&#8217;s obsession with &#8220;virginity&#8221; and the significance placed on it. This information forms a set of values in the victim&#8217;s mind, leading them to devalue themselves continuously. Paradoxically, this knowledge of society&#8217;s &#8220;definition&#8221; of sexual assault brings about greater and deeper pain than what they experienced during childhood sexual assault.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u653e\u4e0b\u548c\u9762\u5c0d\u6240\u6709\u300c\u7531\u4ed6\u4eba\u7d66\u4e88\u7684\u5b9a\u7fa9\u300d\u53ef\u4ee5\u89e3\u812b\u5f88\u591a\u75db\u82e6<br>Letting go and confronting all &#8220;definitions given by people&#8221; can alleviate a lot of pain.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f88\u591a\u4e8b\u60c5\u5176\u5be6\u5982\u679c\u300c\u4e0d\u77e5\u9053\u300d\uff0c\u90a3\u9ebc\u548c\u9019\u4e9b\u4e8b\u60c5\u300c\u6c92\u6709\u767c\u751f\u300d\u672c\u8cea\u4e0a\u4e26\u6c92\u6709\u4ec0\u9ebc\u5340\u5225\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Many things, in essence, have no significant difference if &#8220;not knowing&#8221; about them, as it is equivalent to them &#8220;not happening&#8221; at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u9019\u662f\u70ba\u4f55\u5f88\u591a\u6642\u5019\u300c\u4e00\u7121\u6240\u77e5\u300d\u7684\u4eba\u770b\u8d77\u4f86\u6703\u6bd4\u300c\u7121\u6240\u4e0d\u77e5\u300d\u7684\u4eba\u904e\u5f97\u958b\u5fc3\u6109\u5feb\u3002\u8207\u610f\u8b58\u4e0a\u7684\u300c\u89ba\u77e5\u300d\u884c\u70ba\u4e0d\u540c\uff0c\u4e00\u822c\u4eba\u7684\u300c\u77e5\u9053\u300d\u662f\u6703\u88ab\u5404\u7a2e\u7531\u4eba\u6240\u5275\u9020\u7684\u50f9\u503c\u89c0\u7684\u5f71\u97ff\uff0c<strong>\u7576\u81ea\u5df1\u7a81\u7136\u300c\u77e5\u9053\u300d\u81ea\u5df1\u904e\u53bb\u7684\u300c\u7121\u77e5\u300d\u6642\uff0c \u5c31\u6703\u56e0\u70ba\u8a8d\u70ba\u904e\u53bb\u7684\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5229\u76ca\u88ab\u640d\u5bb3\u800c\u7522\u751f\u4e00\u7a2e\u5f37\u70c8\u4e0d\u7518\u5fc3\u7684\u60c5\u7dd2\uff0c\u9019\u7a2e\u57f7\u8457\u751a\u81f3\u5927\u5230\u5f15\u8d77\u5f88\u591a\u60c5\u7dd2\u548c\u7cbe\u795e\u554f\u984c<\/strong>\u3002\u9019\u6216\u8a31\u662f\u5728\u820a\u7d04\u8056\u7d93\u4e2d\u63d0\u53ca\u4eba\u985e\u7956\u5148\u963f\u7576\u548c\u590f\u5a03\u5403\u4e0b\u5206\u8fa8\u5584\u60e1\u7981\u679c\u5f8c\u64c1\u6709\u300c\u77e5\u9053\u300d\u7684\u80fd\u529b\u5f8c\u5e36\u4f86\u7684\u75db\u82e6\u80cc\u5f8c\u7684\u610f\u6db5\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is why sometimes people who are &#8220;ignorant&#8221; appear to be happier than those who are &#8220;know-it-alls.&#8221; Unlike conscious acts of &#8220;awareness,&#8221; the general public&#8217;s &#8220;knowledge&#8221; is influenced by various values created by humans. <strong>When one suddenly becomes &#8220;aware&#8221; of their past &#8220;ignorance,&#8221; they may experience a strong sense of resentment, believing that their past interests have been harmed. This attachment can even lead to emotional and mental problems<\/strong>. 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